Chivalry is dead? Not really..

Chivalry is not dead its just not required from what i was told but that falls on the women. We know all women are sitting on a gold mind but I feel like they have lost there luster. Why you ask cause women are not holding them selfs to a standerd so the brothers feel like they should have to do sertain thing which should be a requirement. Me personally I always hold the door and open the car door for the ladies and when I do that mostly the younger women (25 n younger) don't no how to react. I remember one time I did it and a girl told me not to do it in front of her friends cause its embarrassing which is sad so ever since then I stop doing that all together.Trying to be a gentleman its hard cause when I do things that should be expected like holding the door or a simple compliment women are like Aww your so sweet your so nice and then turn around and call you soft. Smh where's the love? That the point there is none. Sorry ladies your the ones to blame for letting it get like this..